Situation: My child doesn't like to read, and will only do the
bare minimum required to get though his homework. I know that fluency
in reading is important to his success in school. How do I encourage
him to read more often?
#1: Think about it: You're right to be concerned. Reading is
the key to success in all school subjects. With a bit of creativity
you can help your child enjoy reading more, and spend more time doing it!
#2: Make it fun: Purchase or borrow a stack of "fun"
books. Choose books that will be relatively easy for your child to
read, in other words, those that are slightly below his level of
reading ability. Choose topics based on your child's interests:
baseball, horses, sleepover parties, wild animals, insects, etc. Pick
a mystery, a joke book, books about current movie stars or athletes,
even comic books. Don't comment about the books; simply leave them
lying on the table where your child is sure to see them. To become a
great reader, a child needs lots of practice. If you can find the
types of books your child will be interested in reading, he'll get
the pure practice he needs to make other, more complex, reading easier.
#3: Let him browse the library: Allow your child to get his
own library card. Take him to the library and teach him how to use
the computers and the wide variety of resources available. Many
libraries offer classes to teach kids how to use the resources. Make
a routine visit to the library, and make sure you go when you're not
rushed, so he can take time to explore.
#4: Pick the right computer games: Take advantage of your
child's love of computer games to purchase those that require a lot
of reading to play the game. Avoid those that are simply computerized
video games.
#5: Encourage bed-time reading: Buy your child a bedside
reading lamp, or a tiny book light. Tell him that from now on, he
must be in bed by a specific time (say 8:30) and that he can either
sleep or read. Most kids will do anything rather than go to sleep, so
there's a chance you'll create a new bedtime reading habit.
#6: Have reading material available: Many children will read
when they are sitting alone having a snack, or if they have a few
minutes of unplanned free time. Put a box of books and magazines near
the kitchen table so that reading material is accessible.
#7: Read to your child. Often, once children learn to read
independently, parents stop reading to them. This change of routine
causes great sadness to a child who has come to love falling asleep
as you read. Even a teenager will enjoy being read to if you pick
books that pique his interest. Select books together, and make sure
they're ones you enjoy as well, so your enjoyment will come through
as you read to them.
#8: Check it out: Some children don't like to read because
they have poor eyesight or an undetected learning disability. Look
for signs that there is a problem. Does your child rub his eyes after
reading? Complain of a headache? Become easily frustrated or angry
while trying to read? If you notice any of these problems, make an
appointment with your pediatrician to have your child's health
checked out, or with an optometrist for a complete eye exam.